Additionally, by asking your match out after two or three days, you're allowing yourself just enough time to get to know them personally. You want to make sure you're not still in post-breakup mode. Whether you're jumping in or taking things slow, it's important to remember that the key to a solid, fulfilling relationship doesn't lie in how quickly you knew someone was the person you wanted to be with, it lies in recognizing that a potential partner really can and will give you what you need. Lindsay Dodgson. About Contact Newsletter Terms Privacy.
When you commit to being someone's boyfriend or girlfriend, you are saying to them and to the world that you could potentially see someone more serious come of the relationship.
How Long Should You Wait Before A First Date? The Answer May Surprise You
This woman wishes she and her boyfriend had waited longer than four or five dates before saying they were exclusive. But he asked me after [one of our first few] dates if I wanted to be exclusive and I said yes, mostly because I knew I liked him, and if I said no, I knew he probably wouldn't talk to me anymore. After a month, we decided to become exclusive and stop sleeping with other people. For example, the more you see your upcoming date as a source of excitement, the more likely you are to look forward to the date. I believe he called the other two girls to tell them he and I were exclusive. It's never too early to look for signs of compatibility. Ultimately, it's when it feels right.