If all else fails, try to be good looking. Then what? Pointing out, or asking about an actual common interest I saw in their profile, but usually not as a first message. ComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. You are the only woman that exists. Use spell check and proper grammar. One opener that gets their attention that I made up similar to something I heard from Richard La Ruina is, "I have two felonies, three kids from separate women who I never see, herpes, a drug problem and a penchant for drunk fighting.
You know what else is a Crimea?
What You Should Be Saying in a First Message
Be positive. Which may explain why I had unusually good conversations following this canned opener, from those matches that did reply. Here they are: On other sites that you pay for, like eHarmony and Match. It's fun trying to figure out what to say or do.